Good morning and thank you so much for your message. I realize it's difficult to reach out. Please know I honor your courage.
My name is ***** ***** I am a psychotherapist in the Metro Boston area.
I'm so sorry you are struggling in your relationship. I imagine you feel alone and probably angry that the woman you are dating is no longer available. In terms of your question, it's impossible for me to know where she is at but I can say that her immediate focus and priority at this time centers around her daughter and her soon-to-arrive grandchild. I also imagine once the baby is born, her days will be spent helping her daughter and being with the baby. My guess is the relationship you once shared is not the priority to her it once was and in terms of moving forward, I think you need to do a couple of things...
First and foremost, please go deep to determine exactly how you feel about her. If there is still much love there, please sit down with her and let her know you miss being with her. Perhaps the two of you can schedule a day or two each week to be together? Or, maybe she can stay with you a couple of nights a week? If she shares the same feelings, no doubt, the two of you can find a way to spend more time together.
Secondly, if your feelings are not there and/or you wish to be with someone more emotionally available right now, I would move forward.
If you would like to do a phone session later today, I can be available. Please just let me know and we can easily schedule something.
Have I answered your question? Is there anything else I can do to assist you further? I want to ensure you are pleased with my service. I also gently request you provide a star rating for me. Of course, we can continue to talk after the rating is provided.
Please take good care of yourself and feel free to contact me with any questions you may have.