Hi there. I totally agree with your rationale and understanding of the situation and your response. I don't think you are out of line or blowing things out of proportion. So, with that being said, you need to be honest with him. Any healthy relationship needs to start with open honest communication. The best you do in this situation is state your concerns. We can't dwell on how he will react... that is his decision. If you own your feelings and let him know you are getting nervous about how fast this is moving, then he can't argue with that. I think it is appropriate to tell him you are feeling pressure and seeing the relationship move too fast. Now, lay out to him what you want out of the relationship. Either he respects your opinion or he doesn't. Then you know how to proceed in the relationship. WHat do you think?