Thanks for being so open...why? because sexuality can be fluid..it is not a fixed state or necessarily based on a gender but rather the person. So your last relationship that was with a woman is based on her as a person and the love that was created between you. His insecurity of not being good enough could also exist if your last relationship was with a man...he is hanging onto something that is truly blocking him from being fully present with you and this obstacle is created by him. Why does love need to be defined based on a gender?! Love and sexuality can be fluid. Does that make sense to you?
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