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It's a great question but one that doesn't come with a standard answer. The best way to look at it is to decide what works for both of you and set some "ground rules" around it all and express what you both desire from it. If things start to feel more than either of you desire make a plan to be upfront with your feelings so that you don't just ghost the other, but leave the arrangement based on mutuality and trust in each other and what you have shared.
Have a talk, set the ground rules based on what you both want and stick to them and if it isn't working talk about it.
Ahhh, then you let him know how you are feeling and see if he desires the same and if he doesn't be prepared for it to possibly end.
Then to me it sounds like he is not interested in the way you are so if that feels the same for you then it may be time to move on and move forward.
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He does not sound interested in anything more than the current arrangement so it may be time to move on.
You can't make someone fall in love with you but you can be your loving and wonderful self and if the deeper conenction is meant to exist then it will.
And because of your current arrangement it is not likely that it will change into a deep and love relationship. It has worked well for both of you the way it is and now your feelings have grown deeper for him, but I am not sure his are that way. He has had it easy you being available to him when he needs so it is not usually the case that it would change for him.
No, I am not into games. What I am saying is that things have been easy for both of you and your arrangement has worked and now you have deeper feelings, but I do not believe his will change into what you desire.
It is hard because you want more and I would be surprised if he will give you more, so at some point you will need to ask yourself if this current arrangement is enough for you and if it isn't you may need to move on and heal from it.
and he doesn't. He doesn't want anything more than this arrangement. Time to move forward.
Most likely because you are desiring more than the arrangement.
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