I hear you loud and clear and can hear your passion and your love!!!! Will it be this way always?...most likely...hard to change how he relates as well as you changing how you relate....that doesn't mean it is easy to walk away or the right thing to walk away...only you can decide that...but your styles are different and seems like those styles will always bump into each other. I hear the loud, fun, emotional person in you...that is what will fit well with you. Sometimes the love is there...deeply, but the long-term fit may not be. Excruciatingly painful, I know. So it comes down to what you want moving forward with a man, family and your life? It is okay to love him but also feel that it will not work for either one of you in the long run.