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I found that my husband is watching porn and not only that

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I found that my husband is watching porn and not only that but he has
Videos of himself getting off? Why would he videotape this?
Submitted: 7 months ago.
Category: Relationship
Expert:  TherapistJen replied 7 months ago.

Have you spoken with him about it all? It is not uncommon for him to watch porn and he may get further enjoyment by recording it and watching it later. I think what is important is how you feel about it all and how you can discuss your feelings with him.

Expert:  TherapistJen replied 7 months ago.

Is his watching porn interfering with your intimate life between the two of you?

Customer: replied 7 months ago.
No I haven't spoken to him about it. He is keeping it from me for some reason. We are still intimate probably once or twice a week which is normal for us. We have a toddler and we are both quite busy with work. I guess my greatest concern is that it will become more than this and that he could eventually cheat on me.
Expert:  TherapistJen replied 7 months ago.

He is probably keeping it from you because he may feel that you won't accept it, but try and be open with him about your feelings and your worries. There is no way to know whether that will lead to his cheating, but we do know that right now you are uncomfortable and worried and that should be talked about.

Expert:  TherapistJen replied 7 months ago.

Let me know your further thoughts.

Expert:  TherapistJen replied 7 months ago.

Please let me know how else I can support you.

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