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TherapistJen, LCSW, CPC
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I met this girl who is awesome in everything,she is pretty,

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I met this girl who is awesome in everything,she is pretty, self supporting etc.She had lost a lot of weight too fast and has a lot of sagging skin on her abdomen and some on her breast area.I don't even like having sex as it is a major turn off.Should I call off this relationship due to this or am I being shallow minded.I am 53 she is 57...
Submitted: 1 month ago.
Category: Relationship
Expert:  TherapistJen replied 1 month ago.

It's not about being is about your chemistry with her and how this skin has gotten in the way of you feeling that attraction. How did she handle it when you were open and honest with her? Of course in a perfect world, it would be easy to say stop being shallow and get over it, but that isn't always realistic.

Expert:  TherapistJen replied 1 month ago.

I am here to discuss when you come online.

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