Good morning and thank you so much for your message and clarification. My apologies for not fully understanding initially.
Sadly I am not able to do a phone call at the moment but would like to respond further to your questions.
Yes, I agree, I find it strange that he allowed offense comments to stay on his FB page and did not respond to them or block the individuals writing them. I'm curious about his relationship to the individuals who posted these comments? I certainly don't think this is normal and am completely baffled that he is blaming this on you! You have nothing to do with this at all and this is hardly a reason to walk away from a 13 year marriage. This behavior is not normal.
It seems he is looking for an excuse to walk away from the marriage, claiming he's been unable for quite some time. Do you still love your husband? Do you want things between the two of you to be better? Do you believe he wants and is willing to make some changes? Would he go to couples counseling by chance? Even if, in the long run, the two of you decide to part ways, your relationship deserves some closure and clarity around what happened.
Have I answered your question? Is there anything else I can do to assist you further? I want to ensure you are pleased with myservice. I also gently request you provide a star rating for me. Of course, we can continue to talk after the rating is provided.
Please take good care of yourself and feel free to contact me with any questions you may have.