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My name is ***** ***** I am a psychotherapist in the Metro Boston area of the United States.
I am so sorry to hear about the break-up of your marriage. I agree...this is a rather odd situation...him having the relationship break up over this. I want to ensure I understand your situation completely.....so he posted something on Facebook that was offensive, refused to take it down, then you took it down for him and he left the relationship because of this?
Can I ask a few questions about your relationship in general....? How long had you and your husband been together? How old are you? Have you been in regular contact since he left? Are either one of you moving forward with a formal separation or divorce?
Again, my apologies for all of the questions. I want to fully understand your question.
Thank you so much.
Good morning and thank you so much for your message and clarification. My apologies for not fully understanding initially.
Sadly I am not able to do a phone call at the moment but would like to respond further to your questions.
Yes, I agree, I find it strange that he allowed offense comments to stay on his FB page and did not respond to them or block the individuals writing them. I'm curious about his relationship to the individuals who posted these comments? I certainly don't think this is normal and am completely baffled that he is blaming this on you! You have nothing to do with this at all and this is hardly a reason to walk away from a 13 year marriage. This behavior is not normal.
It seems he is looking for an excuse to walk away from the marriage, claiming he's been unable for quite some time. Do you still love your husband? Do you want things between the two of you to be better? Do you believe he wants and is willing to make some changes? Would he go to couples counseling by chance? Even if, in the long run, the two of you decide to part ways, your relationship deserves some closure and clarity around what happened.
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Good evening, I hope you are well. Just wanted to check in as I have not received a rating from you as of yet To me this means you may have another question.Please let me know – I am simply touching base. Thanks!