Thanks for the disclaimer, but you did just fine!
Sorry to hear about this tough time...sure I think you can get over it if you choose to. Your friends don't get an opinion in your relationship or your choices. Yes, they saw stuff but clearly everyone was acting a bit out of control and if not that night at some other point everyone has made some bad choices that were regrettable. So, I think you are still thinking of it because of feeling embarrassed, but let's try and put that aside. you can always put it all to rest by saying to your friends....I am with her and I don't want opinions or anything else. They will respect that. If you decide to work on things then I think you both need to sit and talk about all feelings so things don't blow up like this in the future.
Let me know your thoughts. If you are all good for now, please take a moment to click the rating tab to rate my support so that I may receive credit for my time...I do not without a positive rating. Thanks for understanding that. I am here if you need.