Good evening and thank you so much for your message. I realize it's difficult to reach out. Please know I honor your courage.
My name is ***** ***** I am a psychotherapist in the Metro Boston area of the United States.
My heart aches for you as you are in a very difficult situation.
First of all, congratulations on your decision of going to school in September. I love your level of motivation and wanting to create a wonderful life for yourself. I imagine you are incredibly frustrated by your boyfriend's motivation not being equal with yours. You don't want to nag him to do the things you believe he should naturally want for himself but sadly we all have different levels of motivation and drive.
I am concerned that you have different future goals for yourself than he. This is a major red flag. Perhaps he was raised to be content with the way things have always been. It does seem like you want something much more. Please do not sell yourself short by settling for less. You will become resentful to him if you do.
Do you have a place to go if you decide to leave his mom's house while thinking about what you might want for the future? Can you live at school in September? I'm wondering if this might give you a bit of space to decide what your next steps should be?
Have I answered your question? Is there anything else I can do to assist you further? I want to ensure you are pleased with my service. I also gently request you provide a star rating for me. Of course, we can continue to talk after the rating is provided.
Please take good care of yourself and feel free to contact me with any questions you may have.