Hello! So sorry to hear you're in this predicament. I am assuming this is caused some difficulty between you and your girlfriend and you're wanting to know how to fix it. There are no guarantees, this is what I would try:
4. Accept your response. You will do better not trying to push an agenda. You made the mistake. You except the results. Hopefully, this will pay off.
Does all this make sense to you? Let me know if you have any further questions. I really do want to be a help.