Hello and thank you for using Just Answer. It unfortunately sounds like this man may have only wanted a Friends with Benefits situation with you as he appears unwilling to make a full commitment in terms of a relationship wit you at this time. His behavior before this misunderstanding and afterwards suggests that he did not have any deep-seeded feelings for you and that this may have only been a superficial relationship for him. I am not sure what the misunderstanding was about, but it is likely that he was upset/shocked that you thought this was a relationship and that is why he acted so defensively and pushed you away like he did. This is most likely what occurred given what you described.