Hello, I'm Alicia. Thanks for your question, I'm happy to help you today. It sounds to me like she has certain expectations about what love should be -- a lot of people think it's supposed to be this head over heels type of experience that you see in movies. That's not love -- that's infatuation. Love is something that evolves over time, when you get to know someone, you enjoy spending time together, you trust each other and you want to share things together. I think she already loves you but she doesn't realize it. Obviously, there are different types of love -- the way you love a family member, the way you love your friends, the way you love a romantic partner, and so on. I think at this stage, since you've only been going out for a month, she's still in the friendship stage of love. I think real love -- romantic love -- takes time to develop for some people, so I would just advise trying to be patient and continuing to go about things the way you have been. You can't "make" someone feel romantic love -- it either happens or it doesn't. But in a lot of cases, "friend" love turns into romantic love just through the process of being together. As a side note, it does sound like she has a lot on her plate right now, with the financial concerns, and perhaps there are other things, too, that you're not yet aware of. I would advise just trying to go with the flow and not pushing anything, because if you do, I fear you might end up pushing her away instead of bringing her closer. If you want to be with her, let her set the pace right now and just wait a few months and see what happens. I wish you luck. Please let me know if you need additional assistance.