Hi, would you like to have dedicated chat time for the issue?
Hi. You have the bad luck to live in one of the worst town to date. Not only does it have a very high men to women ratio:
The town have a lot of transient workers (that don't want any attatch because they are only there to work a while) and it also bring all the olds person that like hot and dry city.
NewYork is the easiest town for men, not only the men to women ratio is very low, the women there are very strong minded and often do the first step.
So you just have to be patient. As for the overweight womens, you can always do a John Nash of yourself and use a bit of game theory, taking a good looking fat one but open minded enough to bring into sport (i see your Nike shirt so it should not be hard for you) and better eating habit.