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What is the best thing to say to a woman you see to get her

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What is the best thing to say to a woman you see to get her to give you her phone number
Submitted: 1 year ago.
Category: Relationship
Expert:  Psych replied 1 year ago.

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Customer: replied 1 year ago.
Expert:  Psych replied 1 year ago.

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Expert:  Christy M replied 1 year ago.

Hello and thank you for your question! My name is ***** ***** I will be assisting you.

The main concerns a woman has about giving out her number are:

Is he married/in a relationship?

Is he going to call/text me all the time?

Do I even want to see him again?

Sometimes it is better to give her your number and let her decide whether she wants to pursue the conversation further. But that leaves you in a position of waiting to see if you will ever hear from her. If you prefer to be more proactive and skip the waiting game you might say:

"I don't mean to bother you but you are very pretty. I don't know if you are seeing anyone or not but I would really like to get to know you and talk sometime. Would you like to exchange numbers?"

"Hi. My name is... You caught my eye and I don't know if I'm your type or not but you seem like a really nice woman. I've got to get to work (or wherever) right now but do you think we could talk on the phone or text sometime?"

"Hello. Can I ask you, are you seeing anyone right now? If not, do you think you might like to go to dinner or a movie sometime? I know you don't know me right now but maybe we can text or talk on the phone, get to know each other and see what we think with no pressure. The worst that could happen is maybe we both make a new friend. What do you say?"

It's always hard making the first move but say something that is natural for you. Be yourself. Women appreciate honesty and openness more than trying to figure out what a guy's angle is.

Thanks again for your question! If you need anything additional just let me know. If not, please rate positively so I may receive credit for helping you today. Good luck and have a great weekend!!! :)

Expert:  Christy M replied 1 year ago.

Hello! I neglected to send you a rating scale for me, so I'm sending it now.

If I can assist you with anything else please let me know :).

Customer: replied 1 year ago.
Never never works for me to go about it, I just wanted to see what the answers would be. Thanks
Customer: replied 1 year ago.
Just let them Give me their number on their own I guess is the best answer

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