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I'm sorry to hear that you're a little confused about your relationship with this girl, but I think that she's confused, herself. For a girl that said she's very religious and wants to concentrate on being a good Christian, she's certainly moving quickly, because you just started dating. I agree, that she's trying to figure things out for herself.
If you've been texting her quite often, this may seem clingy to her and putting her off, so slow down with that, and see how she responds. I'm sorry that you have been in some bad relationships in the past and this is causing serious trust issues. You have every right to feel the way you do, but what's important right now, is to not rush into things with this girl. What's needed here, is taking things slowly and getting to know each other better. I think once that happens, you'll feel more secure within yourself and within your own decisions.
If you enjoy her company, continue to see her, but don't seem too 'needy' (texting/phoning too much, but 'just enough'); be yourself
and enjoy. You need to slowly rebuild your confidence and at the same time, to learn to trust again. It's too early to know right now, if she is the one for you, but that's why it's so important to take the time to date and get to know each other better. She sounds a little impulsive and you'll need to rein her in and make sure you don't agree to anything you don't feel comfortable with. Don't be afraid to talk things out with her, like when she said you were her boyfriend. Isn't that a decision BOTH of you should make? You can discuss this with her, but in a nice way. Tell her you were flattered, but the two of you never even discussed that, so you were surprised. Tell her you'd like to take things slowly, based upon what she first said when you asked her out, re: being religious, etc.
I hope things work out the way you want them to!
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