I am sorry about what happened. Is your ex best friend and this lady still together? Are you wanting to be friends with him again along with the group? Is the group against it?
Hi Chris (that's my middles son's name)
I understand why you would want the group friendship back. It's difficult when things aren't the same and that void is left behind. However, sometimes it is best for things to be different than have a falsè friendship. Think of it this way even though it hurts that the group is different now at least you now see who your true friends are. That is much more important than just having a group to have fun with. The group is upset with him because of what he did and they seem to be your true friends. It is better you found this out sooner than later. However, I would not advise you to walk around angry or with hate since that only will hurt you in the long run. Try to forgive and make peace, so that you can move on. This does not mean you should be friends with him. Even though we are no longer angry it is best to remove negativity from our lives in order to continue our happiness.
I wish you the very best and please let me know if I can be of further help.
It seems as though you are aware and have been of the type of person he is, so you did not loose anything. As for if they will break up no one knows, but if he is not a good person then he may not be able to handle her issues. Only time will tell.
It is my pleasure to help. And you are exactly right time and forgiveness will help. Your feelings are a normal reaction. Try to focus that energy into positive for your life. All the best to you and feel free to request me anytime!