I would like to help me. Can you please give me more details and let me know if you have a specific question.
Can you please tell me who it is that is overweight and annoys you? How do they annoy you and do you feel it is due to their weight or etc?
How long has she been overweight and how long have you been feeling like this? How is your relationship otherwise?
Would you still like me to help? Are you wanting help with how you can not feel annoyed or etc?
Would you still like help?