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Hello, I am sorry that you are having this issue with your girlfriend, I can understand how distressing this can be for you. We all at one point or another have said something out of anger and frustration that we did not mean and I am sure you can recall yourself saying something in anger that you did not mean. While I know the comment your partner made cannot be taken away, but you should not focus on this one comment as the truth. Instead try to look at all the other pieces of evidence that your girlfriend enjoyed being with you sexually and also when other women have been satisfied sexually with you. I am sure when you look at all the evidence there is more positive affirmation of your sexual prowess than negative with your current partner and other women previously. To help you with this as well, here are a couple good exercises/techniques that I use with patients to help them see things more objectively and to not focus on just the negative.
Overall if you are your girlfriend have a good relationship and the only real negative right now is this one comment, I would recommend working it out with her as she only said what she said out of anger/frustration. Over time this comment will start to affect you less and less, as you start to focus on seeing the whole picture and not focus on this one comment. I wish you and your partner all the best and I hope you two will work through this very soon.
I hope this answers your questions and gives you some guidance on this issue. Please let me know if you have any questions or concerns as I am happy to assist and support you regarding this issue.
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