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Hello, I am very sorry to hear that your boyfriend cheated on you like this, I can understand how hurt you must feel right now. The initial reason he kissed this girl (from what his son told you) was not a rebound relationship, but was his own choice to cheat on you either because that is the way he behaves and is not truly a person who commits in a relationship or because the opportunity was there and he was just "weak," and could not resist. But the plan to move this woman to a ranch house job afterwards can be considered a rebound relationship. Some individuals rebound fast like this because they do not like to be alone and need to be in a relationship to feel good about themselves, so that may be the reason here as well. If your boyfriend is willing to admit his faults here, apologize, and work to earn back your trust than it is possible for you two to reconcile, but he is the one that must reach out to you as he is the one at fault here. I know this is difficult for you, but you must continue the no contact rule as he is the one who broke your trust and had this "affair," so if he truly cares about you and wants to make it right than he will reach out to you.
I hope this answers your questions and gives you some guidance on this issue. Please let me know if you have any questions or concerns as I am happy to assist and support you regarding this issue.
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I cannot read his mind, but if he truly cares for you than yes he would be thinking about you even if he is with this other woman. There is no specific timeline on when or if he will contact you, but usually if he does not contact you within 2-4 weeks than it would be best for you to consider moving forward with your life as he did not appreciate you like you did for him.