.....other statements which felt were in defense of him was that .....oh well you know dad can't talk about it because it's too painful and he had a hard life. Well who didnt?
he also said its like me going to the therapist for the first time the he tells me I'm depressed straightforward. I don't understand how any of these examples are related to why my husband lied to me about the alcoholism.
Kate, I had trouble writing on the previous post for some reason. I asked him to change a few light bulbs. He said Dad will do it. I said, no he wont. He said..I will text him. That's when I told him his dad was playing games and that he was claiming that there's enough light in the kitchen and its a waste of money. I tried not to elaborate and the subject was dropped. at another point he was telling me how my husband admitted to him that he had an alcoholic father. I said really
Thank you Kate. Even if there is truth in what he is saying, its hard for me to feel that justifies my husbands lies to me. My husband denied it many times when it came up. I also felt that he was defending his father too much
Great information Kate. Thank you much.