Since my daughter met this man...she left a good job, moved far away and has started to feel like a stranger. She has alienated her family and now intends to marry him in his home town so his family can all be there and our family will be on the outside looking in. How can I go without crying the whole time. my heart is broken but I am trying to be strong and attend. Feel so sad that I can't plan it with her and that his Mother will be there doing it in my place. He is such a control freak and jealous of any time she spends with us. When he does come to our home he is on his cell phone the whole time with his mother.