I consulted you before. I and my husband use the same computer and I can trace his activities online. He doesn't know to delete his track and I can click on it and know his activities. He was talking to his ex girl friend on facebook. We are on the verge of buying a house now. If I have to put down my 20% deposit to buy a house with my husband, is there any legal I can protect myself from the money I have to put up? I cannot afford a divorce because of my conditional resident status. He flatly told me he loved me only and had intention to see his ex girlfriend just now, but I know it was a lie because I have proof from his facebook messages. I'm amazed on his lying power and wonder how much he is capable of doing. He kept saying I quit worrying and even asked me to talk to his friends' wives for consultation. I'm between a rock and a hard place since if I provoked him, he may just admitted it and ask me to leave and then a divorce. Now down to the minimal expectation, at least is there any way I can protect my money into the down payment of the house if anything happened?
You're right. I'm in such a grey zone that it's so hard to think straight.
I shouldn't make him admit anything, being in the right is not gonna help me this time. I have to know where he's heading in order to plan my next step. I'm so sorry it has to come to this...