a lot of these people wont speak to me. if I write them a letter I don't believe they will read it. how d yu get closure anyway
a lot of people will not speak with you and this makes things worse because you are not able tot express how you feel.
You are not able to get rid of those emotions that you are carrying around with you everyday.
It is a problem you are trying to solve and you can not because certain people will not talk with you.
They never got to hear your side because they just decided to walk away.
It is not fair too you to feel this hurt.
I do feel they would read the letter, most people would read a letter just out of curiosity.
I am sure they would wonder what you had to say and read the letter. You need to express your emotions so that they understand that you are hurt as well. You were the one that was dealing with a marriage that ended.
People needed to have some understandings and feelings toward what you were going through at the time. It was your divorce, your marriage, you never got the time to heal because you had so many people involved it was unfair too you.
Marriage is two people no one should have been involved.
You and your ex needed to just resolve the divorce together without all this interference.
Now you have people who will not talk with you.
In order for you to move on and get closure you need to tell every single person how you feel. If you get all your emotions out, you will feel better. You have been holding in all this anger and resentment because you have not been able to talk about this with the people that hurt you. I feel a letter would let you get your emotions out, even if you feel they might not read it, it will help you in the healing process.
You need to finally say what is on your mind. If they do not respond then you got to say what you needed to say all these years.
It's time for you to start a new chapter in your life.