That sounds great. Now, if someone offers help like that, how would you say it could be dealt with so there was no waiting; is there an immediate way to solidify and define a committment like that? I feel if I had done that right away this could have been more settled and on its way by now. Part of my plan is to do this in the future so can you tell me how? I have had normal friendships but so many were in younger years and school and did not involve adult kind of support and the issues with that.