For whatever reason, this man does not want to commit to furthering your relationship. That, I’m afraid, is the botXXXXX XXXXXne. Just look at what has happened over the last short period. First he wants you, then he doesn’t. You both get angry with each other, frequently. Ask yourself - is this really a good foundation for a mutually loving and trusting relationship. I do not think it is, and that it is time for you to move on. If he really wanted to be with you, he would act like it, not just talk about it. Sometimes talk about ´family problems´ is a good indicator that frankly, he is not a good bet. Better to move on NOW, rather than leaving yourself open to more hurt and disappointment. Leave the ball firmly in his court, and don’t chase after him, or he will continue to manipulate you. Regards, Norman.