my husband says he does not want to get involved with anything to do with our son and me..... he wants to stay neutral... and my son continues to always get irritated about something with me.. i never know when he will pop the statement.... i have tried many times to explain to my husband i just need your support and he says he can not give it.... i have been attacked by my sons wife that i live with alcholics and i should just except these things..... i am very strong in my faithand many years of therapy... this one i need an answer what to do... boundaries dont seem to work
can i compare answers with another therapist?
my husband really believes he should not be involved..... and my son will spurt out things and then come say he is sorry but this is ongoing and to the point i do not want to be around them together... i have worked long and hard to build my self esteem and around them i feel like the guilty, wrong, stupid one.... i just want to run away in all honesty...
im waiting for more replies.... i dont see how my husband is being abusive or manipulating but my son yes.
running away is really not the solution.................what other suggestions?