Hello Based on the nature of the question, I really need a particular demographic to reply: an attractive woman with whom many men take (or have taken in the past) an active interest. Everyone knows what I'm talking about, here... I'm training a client with whom I'm falling for in a big way. We have worked together a couple of months and will stop in about another month. She's one of those types that every man wants and every woman wants to be. I know she enjoys my company immensely (she's said so multiple times) but she has a brainiac pretty-boy boyfriend who could have almost anyone he wanted. They've been together 2 years and argue quite a bit. He doesn't want to give up smoking pot or other drugs (he's well-employed, making good money) for her and claims that he will be a totally hands-off father (which she does not like one bit). I'm 44 (divorced, no kids, but still a boy who hits the gym 6 days a week) and she's 28. In my younger days, I was a bit of a player, and know how to talk to women. She knows for sure that I would make a great father. But again - her boyfriend is kind of like the LeBron James of our demographic. Yeah, a little bit of a selfish dickhead, but what woman wouldn't be willing to be with LeBron? Because she worked with me intensely for 2 months (and paid me a significant amount) I've begun meeting her briefly for free when its convenient for me (which it often is) and we've now had dinner together a couple of times. We have intense conversations that go all over the place. I know she enjoys herself. Last night, she talked about reading the 5 "languages" of love and how her two languages (words and physical affection) don't happen with her boyfriend (who provides services and small gifts). Of course, I do 4 out of 5, especially words and affection: I fight NOT to tell her how smoking hot she is. I'm going to have to wait at least a month before doing anything about this (when her "project" is finished) and its starting to get to me. At this point, I'm really wondering whether I'm barking up the wrong tree? Would a smart, beautiful woman with the world at her feet be willing to leave douche-Superman for a cute but definitely older guy? I know she knows I would make a great husband/father to someone, but she's never done any flirting, touching, hugging, or anything like that with me. I don't think she's the oblivious pretty-girl type who thinks that I'm "just being nice". She has a degree from a top-10 business school. I know she would never cheat on her boyfriend (he hasn't asked her to marry him) but I do think she would be willing to leave him for the right guy. This might sound strange, but my descriptions are quite accurate. For example, the brainiac has a Masters in Financial Engineering from Stanford. My client can easily be a super pretty, make-up free, lean, mean machine. She's no joke. Do women like that really end up with good guys like me? I'm just no Superman... Any thoughts would be appreciated. p5owgq2
Thanks so much. Very informative. Any quick thoughts about the age difference (44 vs 28, although I have very "young" energy).