I have done all of the above, but I guess what really hurts is that my husband and I have spent the last 15 years going to the cabin every weekend during the summer just so my parents could be there as the were aging, now that my dad is out of the picture they all come around wanting to take over and talking my mom into it. I don't have any children to leave the cabin to so I am sure this is why she is doing this. The thing is, my mom will not be eligible for Medicaid if she simply gives it away. They are gambling that she will just fall over dead I guess. Yes, it is difficult to get over betrayal. I feel the others were jealous because they chose to miss out on years of time with mom and dad....I guess I am blessed to have had those years. But now I am also suffering verbal abuse whenever I try to talk to any of them about the matter..I deserve better so I have chosen to stay away from all of them but it really hurts!