Hi! I'll be glad to help you with this issue.
I can imagine how distressing this situation is. Does your wife know that this is a "deal breaker" for you? That you are considering leaving?
she knows that i am a patient guy but she has now pushed me to the edge,am totaly shattered
Is she as distressed as you? Or is she more willing to just say "that's too bad"?
You know, in marriages there are some issues that are irreconcilable. As painful as that is, this can be the case. Having or not having children is just such an irreconcilable issue if you're both not in agreement. A marriage can withstand this if the love is very strong between the two of you. Do you believe that's the case here?
Okay, I wish you the very best!
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