Hi, I'm Josie and I am a moderator for this topic. I sent Dr. Paige, your requested professional, a message to follow up with you here, when she is back online.
If I can help further, please let me know. Thank you for your continued patience.
Dr Paige has opted out of answering your questions. The advice she gave you was all good sound advice, and I see from your last post that you are on the verge of acting on it.. Just do it.
This man is using you, manipulating you and playing with your feelings. You are worth more than that.
A lot of what you were asking Dr Paige to tell you was really asking her to make a guess, but even a really good psychologist like Dr Paige cannot predict someone’s actions, so in the end you have to decide. Be a plaything, or take control.
I know what I would do.!
Just do what deep down you know is best.