This is his second book on the subject and he is very effective and persuasive.
Keep you contact up discretely and he may gain the confidence to come back to you.
I shall keep you in my prayers, to that end.
Elliott, MAE, LPCC, NCC, CCMHC
What sort of things should I say? I don't want him to feel overwhelmed or like I'm some crazy girl who just can't let go.
And if he is confused, why wouldn't he text me or call me?
One thing I forgot to mention is that two days before we broke up, he staged an intervention for his alcoholic father. He's also been dealing with job stress. He's away for a month on a business trip right now so I'd want to wait to reach out and give him some space. Do you think he will get in touch with me when he gets back? Do people with these fears realize they made a mistake when given space?
But then why does everything I read online say to use No Contact after a break up to make your ex miss you?