My friend is dating this girl that none of our other friends like, and she is rather crazy. They haven't been together much longer than a year but they have been living together since only month 3 or 4, and she is already talking marriage. She really isn't good for him, so we want to say something to him to confront him about it, but we don't know what or how. Help?
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Well...it's a little more complicated than we just don't like her. There's that, but also, we honestly think she might be poisoning his cat. And we all agree that she could easily be the kind to "forget" to take her birth control. We just want to spare him a lifetime of heartache. When it does end, and we tell him what we thought, it is inevitable that he would say, "But why didn't you TELL me?!" Has this sort of thing ever been successful? Maybe if it's less confrontational, and more like, "Hey man, we love you and we'll support you no matter what, but here's what we're concerned about..." Maybe??