Hi, I'll be glad to help you with this.
I can imagine how frustrating and humiliating and hurtful all of this is. Do you think it's time for you to move on from the marriage?
I see you're typing. Go ahead and keep typing, I'll wait, okay?
Yes, but that is scary after 35 yrs. Plus he has raped me 3 times so I'm scared of him.
Do I just up and move to another state? I have 7 grandchildren that I want to continue seeing.
Tell me why you would need to move to another state? Most people who don't leave the geographical location just because they left a relationship.