I pay $15 a month , just thought it was too short an answer for my paragraphs. I understand that people cheat, but it doesn't make them always a cheater. That myth is being busted nowadays. I have been in his position years ago where i was in a long term relationship and we had that gray area of together, not together, not happy and I did step out or cheat atleast I felt that way despite us being not all the way together. I learned from it and went on to another long term relationship and never even thought twice about cheating again even though i had plenty of opportunity and temptation. People are people, we make mistakes but we r doing the right thing of letting it go. Your right he didn't choose me, but would you advise that? Like you said, I don't want him either right now cuz of the circumstance and he is aware of that. He has said he would be willing to work with me if that ever came around, give me his phone for a year, anything (he suggested that). So thanks for you response but I was just expecting more esp since I been paying $15 a month and have yet to ask anything in the past few months.