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I can imagine how confusing this situation must be for you. You are clearly a loving and caring woman and you love him very much. You are willing to take on a new life as a Muslim for his sake. This is a tremendous gesture of love. And you are concerned that he is not ready to make a gesture confirming his love for you.
And this is actually the key to my answer to you that you need to consider and think about. This is indeed a very serious issue and you are correct to be concerned. The question of marriage between you is vital. You are prepared to change your religion and lifestyle to join his way of life for the sake of your love for him. But this is only meaningful and relevant if you two marry.
He is withholding this from you. And you don't know why. That is the hurtful problem here, that he is not letting you know why he is not ready to commit to marriage. Perhaps it is his worry about his parents. Perhaps it is something else.
However, you deserve to know the answer. There is no way for your relationship to move forward without the two of you discussing this and sharing what is in each of your hearts honestly. Therefore, I recommend that you answer him by telling him that the two of you need to have an open discussion about what your plans are. And if he responds that time will tell, then you must tell him that you love him and you need him to tell you, not time. Because you need to know if he is truly prepared to marry. And if not, that he please tell you why not.
Then once he tells you, it will be possible for you to decide if his reasons are valid and you wish to wait for his timetable. Or if you feel that he is not fully committed and you are not prepared to make all of these life changes without his being committed.
Okay, I wish you the very best!
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