just add at the end that maybe we could talk sometime? i see your point about including an actionable step, but i felt liked i owed her an apology free of motive this time. is there anything that seems to be lacking beyond that?
maybe....if you'd like to talk sometime, i'll listen?
i will. i'm just trying to think. im worried that its too much. i dont want to push her away either, but i guess its my only play.