We were dating, he even introduced me to a lot of his family and friends. He wouldn't tell me anything so I don't know why he stopped talking to me. It's like I said before, I sent him a message saying that I couldn't wait anymore and he wouldn't talk to me at all after that. I really felt bad after sending that text though and tried to apologize, but I still didn't get a response. I started wondering if maybe he thought that I wasn't into him, because I can be pretty shy. The last time we saw each other, neither one of us really touched each other but he used to be all over me.
He would respond to me, but he would always have the excuse that he was busy. I know he was busy because he had a full time job and was going to grad school, but he would still hang out with his friends and not me. The last time I asked him if he wanted to go see a movie with me that we had both been wanting to see, he told me he was already going that day with one of his friends and that's when I snapped and texted him that I couldn't wait anymore.
Okay, I've dated other guys before, but he was really different. We had a lot of the same interests and he was so sweet. It didn't seem like he could do something like this. I have a really hard time opening up to people, but I almost instantly felt like I could be myself around him. I still didn't tell him everything, because I do have some trust issues as well. I couldn't tell him some things about my family because I thought he would think poorly of me because his last girlfriend was "perfect". Sometimes he even seemed out of league.
It wasn't only the fact that I could relate to him. He was charming, sweet, very caring and compassionate to others, and he was funny. I really feel like I"m in love with him. I think that's why it hurts so much. I've had a crush on him for years, but for one of those years he had another girlfriend. When he finally started to want to date me I couldn't even believe it! After we slept together he still wanted to see me and even made me breakfast afterwards. He treated me wonderfully, like I was special. Then almost out of nowhere started to fall away from me.
We started talking about 2 years ago, after he broke up with his girlfriend. We started dating last October, and he stopped talking to me in May.
We were friends first.
I just didn't think it would take this long to get over him, if I started seeing other people.
That's exactly why it's so hard. I think maybe I did have high expectations of him though. And now every time I do date someone else
I really do miss having someone that I could be myself with. I'm not entirely sure if that's the only reason I miss him or not though.
I do still have some friends that I feel that way with, so I don't think so.
Yes I did. He made me feel like I could do anything. I made me feel attractive, and pushed me to try new things and actually do what I wanted to do as far as my career goes.
And he was the first gut that made me feel that way.
Thank you, XXXXX XXXXX thought of it like that before. I think this is great advice. You have no idea how many people have told me that he's just a jerk and he probably started seeing another girl over and over again and it wasn't helping me, it just made me feel worse. This wasn't the sort of answer I expected, but I think it will work so much better. You're the first professional that I've talked to that actually seemed like you wanted to help me. Thank you so much for your patience and your advice.
Thanks, XXXXX XXXXX