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She's got an amazing outlook. She has a beautiful personality and on top of all that she is drop dead gorgeous. All that, among many other reasons is why I've fallen for her. The problem is I met her when she was engaged and after she's had the chance to get to know me... she still married the guy (the guys is 12 years older and has heaps of money). She tells me the reason she married him is because she had to get over her mentality of being with him (7 year relationship). She says its a neutral relationship with him and she never has sex with him and that she fully plans on leaving him for me. So here I am hopelessly waiting.
The reason for the question is this..... I now, I should run as fast as I can. My friends say so and the back of my mind says so... but I'm just so in love with her and captivated by her that I'm still waiting (3 months past her marriage). So what should I do? How do you think I should proceed?
I'm a personal trainer and she's a nutritionist. I have my act together (I'm 22) and know exactly where I'm going in life (joined the USMC at 17). I'm no novice to the "courtship" game. I don't mean to sound vain but I am attractive (easily able to become a model), not just that but I have the lifestyle and personality to go along with it and can easily score a high quality woman (sex is simply not an issue). So please understand that I've fallen for her, for all the justifiable reasons.