That's nice to hear but I called her as well and she texted me back.She still refuses to engage me on a personal level via phone and I wouldn't even know how to start a conversation.She did say it would be nice to see me but once again she has ignored me completely I have given this woman all her space and not interfered in her life.there are still issues like clothes and money which she refuses to address.I just wonder if this is best left alone for a little while.i want this woman back but I think it has to be on her.She is unbelievably stubborn
I have taken the high road in all of this.She knows how I feel and I think I know how she feels.I have no problem with the the way she wants the relationship ,I just want her to open the door a little and not pressure her.She even texted me that her young daughter saw me(I have no idea where) and said how good I looked.????
neither do I.lol
understood but I don't know where to start either.lol.I assume I will hear from her again ,I just need to let her be comfortable with her decision to connect. in your experience do u think she will reach out again.I am very confused.
lol.i will wait for her to text and take your advice from there.I am pretty beaten up right now and don't have the courage to be rejected. trying to get healthy .Wish me luck.lol
It happened again. after the nice texting she actually showed up.We had a great conversation and I was being polite. Started to discuss the relationship but she said that door was closed which pissed me off as I am wondering why the texting and the visit.hurt all over again. sent her a letter as closure and to leave me alone. sends me back a letter how sad and lonely she is and she was missing me which is why she dropped in. like an idiot I told her I wanted the same things. She then proceed to send me a one line email.saying she has to get on with her and she was sorry. also found out she has been seeing someone since the break up. What the hell am I dealing with here. and of course we are back to lockdown on communication. she contacts me whenever she feels like it. Tell me this is the last time this person comes near me.
Well it seems like the door is closed again and I have to get on with my life.I can not wait to see if she will contact me again because I am doing unhealthy things.And I would have no idea what to say to her the next time anyway!
will she contact me again and if so what should I say?