Hi I'm Dr. Jackie, if you want to chat.
Did you want to chat?
I'm here to help if you want to talk
i wanted an answer.
i don't know if i feel comfortable with this.
I'm sorry--what can I do? I read your post twice--did you want a comment on it? Or do you want to chat with someone else? Is that what you mean?
yes i want a comment on it.
If so, I'll step out. I just want to help if you want.
i wasn't looking to chat right now.
oh ok. Do you want me to at least provide an initial comment via the email/Q & A function?
You never have to pay either until you are satisfied your concerns have been addressed/answered. :-)
OK. I'll at least start an initial response and maybe when you have time you can respond to that.
We've talked about him moving maybe in January. He doesn't tell me how his plans for that are going. He moved back in with his parents recently and hasn't told them he plans to move. This concerns me and I told him it did, and he only said, 'there's no point in saying anything until there's something definite.'
I did send him dates and itineraries and he voiced some enthusiasm, but he hasn't done anything.
At the beginning of the summer, I was planning to go to school a couple hours away from where he is, but it didn't end up working out.
He says he wishes he could be here or that I could be there. Sometimes it seems like that's all it is for him, is wishing. Just something inside his head.
thank you very much, you have given me good things to think about. sometimes i am not sure about the relationship and it is hard for me to find someone unbiased to talk to . i am very grateful.