I've told her before that there were little tweaks that felt wronged me in such a way. Mainly now i see that as justification for my actions even though I was at fault the entire time. I did find bad photos on her phone of other guys. So i thought it was acceptable though nothing was going to happen. I don't know if I should do little love bits, get her breakfast, send a flower or chocolates or something to salvage this wreck I have created. It's only been 24hrs so the wounds are still kind of fresh to her. And I'm the type that if something isn't right I'll smother it. If i can't i start overreacting and break down. I'm just at a loss how I should go about acting and to rebuild this.
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Chocolates may send a bad signal, shes loves them but shes a bit bigger woman. I got her breakfast her favorite from McD's and it was shot down.
I dont know if i can. I screwed up I don't if she will take me back. There's still things she has but she threw away most everything from the relationship. I don't know what to do.
I tried those things, but I may have stepped out of line when i went over there to give her some water filters(she uses them on brita) she was pretty unresponsive to kind alternatives to cope with the trauma i caused.
Thanks, we basically talked about some character flaws i have and basically everything about each other. Good/ Bad/ Ugly, she says she's ready for the "next" stage in life. And with me she doesn't see that I contribute. She stated it'd be awkward since she doesn't see me the same and only reason is because no one else wants her would be to stay with me. I'm going to seek some counseling from my college to see if there's anything to alleviate my own pain and cope with the stress of this and prepare for the worst.
She keeps text me, one texts says after i said that I want to make amends for what i caused. It says "What don't you get. I can't look at your or love you the exact same." I don't know how to respond.
On facebook she hasnt denied that she doesnt want me around anymore. Its still showing im in a relationship and shes tagged. The other person has to accept that. I dont know what this means in the midst of it all.