Hi! I'll be glad to be of help with this issue.
I can imagine how confusing and distressing this situation must be for you. You clearly have feelings for him but you also know that he's not ready emotionally to be in a healthy relationship. He's making you feel guilty about your desire to meet your own needs by looking elsewhere for a good relationship.
And this is actually the key to my answer to you that you need to consider and think about. Good people do feel guilty for wanting to act on their own needs instead of the other person's needs. But that is not a good basis for a relationship. Really, it's not a healthy way to keep a relationship going, that you feel bad because he thinks he needs you.
You have a right to have a good, healthy relationship. And again, guilt is not a good basis for trying to make this one into a long term relationship.
Okay, I wish you the very best!
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