I have a question about post-breakup. Me and my ex have been broken up for about 5 months. She would not to long after the breakup get involved in another relationship. So soon that im thinking its a rebound. The thing is she still wanted to be friends and keeps in contact on and off. She has reached out to wish me happy birthday, good luck on an exam I was about to take, congrtas on an award I received, and congrats on a promotion I made. She even wished my mother happy birthday on facebook and still likes a lot of her post and pictures. What I don't understand is if she wanted out of the relationship, why continue trying to be friendly with my mother or even continue reaching out to me here and there. Doesn't make any sense. I don't know of any ex's still trying to be friendly with there ex's parents after they have broken up. Especially since she is involved with someone else. She still hasn't even returned some of my things I left in her house along with the only picture she has of me. When you break up you normally would return each others belongings back right. We work together as well and I receive a lot of hot and cold behavior from her as well. Its like she wants to be close but then would back-off and act like I don't exist. I swear women are confusing.
The thing is i still love this women but im not going to wait forever. I dont know how i could get this women to realize what me and her had was good. When we were together she loved me to death. We were unseperable but the thing is she wanted to rush things as far as possibly getting married instead of letting things happen natural. I broke things off at first because i wasnt sure if i was ready to take that step just yet. Dodnt know if i wanted to see otherwomen but me and her were still close during that break. When i finally came around and decided that she was the one for me, she was reluctant to put her heart out to me. She wanted to see change which i believe was to get married.