I really hate putting myself in this uncomfortable position but since he replied I will ask another question
Kate last night I was out what my husband to the store and every aisle he was telling me what to buy and seem like he was hovering over me. When we got home I told him about it and he became angry and shut the door in my face pretty much and he told me that I simply don't like him. I have over told him that he's not listening but he's being defensive yet he's right I don't like him. but I see a pattern here every time he feels judge or criticize he goes up in his room and locks door which to me seems very child like. so is the best way never to address things that bother me because I'm only going to get childlike responses?. Dee
okay thanks a lot Okay, I will try another angle for my own self preservation.
I will, thanks again.