I have to finish planning for my retirement, we have no children, and we have a house that is too large. If I live on my own, I will not have as much money. How to decide if I should remarry, also my friend who was going to help, maybe I should be concerned. When I talked to her she said she was going to visit her sister, then it was a big camping trip for a week with over 20 people. She then sent me an email saying they were people she had not seen in 10 years and were part of the extended family. I always have to ask if things are O.K. and worry if I am calling at the wrong time. Does this mean she is being polite and not much more than a friend on the surface? My husband does not want to move but it is impractical to stay here, and I assume he wants to be by himself and does not have enough confidence that he will be in good shape in retirement. The house is too large to stay in until you can not do that like most people do. Do I ask my neighbor if I can move in with them or one of my relatives? What if no money?