I agree with everything you said. Do you think I should ask him about everything I found?? What about my betrayal of his trust since I went snooping? I found everything by reading a journal he had, digging through his legal divorce papers, and reading letters he never gave his ex wife last summer. Obviously, he will become irate - no matter how calm I am. That is why I am having this dilemma. What would be the best way to bring it all up?