My friend is really busy with her family and now she has to have surgery, they also manage a large residence and have other projects. She was helping me and I usually call her every other day. She had to call me back late in the day on one of those days when I would normally call, because she was busy and this was an hour and a half before her family was (kids and granddaughter and their family) going to be there for dinner and she had not started it yet, so I asked her when I could talk to her. She said today at about 11:00. I said I would try then, first. She was not there. Is this too busy? She has called me back before, at a different time, but we had not agreed on a time to talk in those instances. She's an important friend. If she can't take calls or is usually busy, what to do? Is this a bad sign? I need her help so it's important. Thanks. Will wait, hope it does not take long. Also, would someone let you know they could not talk, I told her I would try 11:00. And, she was giving needed help for anything and I do need it. Would someone ever offer that and then not do that? I don't think so, what do you say?
I talked to her later today. What if I have something else to say, can I call twice in one day? If
she's my friend it should not matter, right?
Can people with lots of things they don't want others to know be good friends with anyone? If something bad happened to your friend and they only told you part of the story (say they did something wrong) with some of the details left out and altered slightly, can they have a normal friendship with you, or anyone else? What if you find out, do you tell them?