Okay, I guess I know I have to give her space and am willing to do it, I just don't understand why when she did respond to me, she couldn't give me any kind of reassurance. "I love you" "miss you" anything, "thank you" is a bad sign in my thought process. Even "thank you, Eric" would have been more personal. I have feelings too, and I feel like I have to ignore them to have any chance of saving this. Why is it so hard for someone who loves you, to text "I love you" to help them in this emotional rollercoaster. It just gives me a bad feeling. This is so much a 180 from just one week ago it is a shock, I guess that is why I am concerned about another man. Please feel free to give me the good with the bad when it comes to advice. Thanks doctor.