Sorry. I got busy with an order at work. My gf has some emotional problems from her being abused repeatedly from a very close family member. It causes a lot of issues as you can imagine on many levels not just sexual. She never went to counseling for it and unfortunately can explode constantly even if shes having a good time or especially if we're out drinking. Im convinced time apart at the minimum is needed for her. I can do that. I don't think sending her I love you messages off the bat is the best approach. she always threatened to break up and move out and it became a weekly thing and she did yesterday. I just want an opportunity to win her back, convey my love at some point and just do things even if its avoiding her completely to get her interest back. Was going to exercise, drop a few pounds and look like I have been active and busy whiles shes still away so that if she allows me to see her I have a chance.